Beachbumcook
Kansas Chapter member
CAFORDDUDE,
In post #5 you mentioned that your inlaws have stood by you and watch the kids.... please.... just remember that blood is thicker than water!!!
No reason to cut the kids of from Grandma and Grandpa and it sounds like they all have a good relationship, but as parents, they feel the same obligation to your wife (ex-wife) as you do to your kids.
Any strategy of how you will fight her, what your asking for and the like... do not tell it to your in-laws unless you are trying to "feed her information or miss-information".
I am very sorry to hear of the problems your wife is having and the hardship it is causing you. I would just keep doing your job and doing the best you can with and for your kids. Sounds like Grandma and Grandpa are there to support you, but it may be only for the kids sake... which is OK... but we all hear how some inlaws will enable the taking of kids from one parent to another. What I am saying is.... "trust... but verify".
Best of luck,
Jeff
In post #5 you mentioned that your inlaws have stood by you and watch the kids.... please.... just remember that blood is thicker than water!!!
No reason to cut the kids of from Grandma and Grandpa and it sounds like they all have a good relationship, but as parents, they feel the same obligation to your wife (ex-wife) as you do to your kids.
Any strategy of how you will fight her, what your asking for and the like... do not tell it to your in-laws unless you are trying to "feed her information or miss-information".
I am very sorry to hear of the problems your wife is having and the hardship it is causing you. I would just keep doing your job and doing the best you can with and for your kids. Sounds like Grandma and Grandpa are there to support you, but it may be only for the kids sake... which is OK... but we all hear how some inlaws will enable the taking of kids from one parent to another. What I am saying is.... "trust... but verify".
Best of luck,
Jeff