mrfixit
Chief Chaotic Engineer
That's right, man... hope all is well!
Andy, about two years ago my wife's best friend, a widow, began an online relationship with this "man" from Nigeria. She asked Donna and I what we thought, as her family is very racist. She allowed me access to her emails, and all I did was open them to show full headers, found the originating ISP, and used google to figure out what area they were from. This guy was all over the map, yet claimed to be working for computer time in an internet cafe. Not once did the ISPs match with where he said he was... He made a good many grand overtures trying to win our friendship, and even went so far to throw in scripture at the end of his emails, yet after NUMEROUS attempts by me to get him to explain his lying, he never even so much as addressed it. I suggested she end it. It took her a long time to do so, tho, and he broke her heart even more by talking her out of money for plane tickets then coming up with stories about being incarcerated and missing the flight, or government shutting down all flights... He progressively became more and more an obvious scammer.... and them we found out SHE had pancreatic cancer. from diagnosis she lived six months. But she DID thank me for finding out he was what he was... but it grieved me to see someone so close get taken in by an imposter. If what I did in finding out where he was and who he is was wrong, well, I guess I'll live with that, lol... you said "He explains that he had gotten two strange emails and was able to trace them back to Temecula." and beforehand that he was a "computer forensics geek that does contract work for the government." If you made that e-mail account from your home-computer, what he did to find where those e-mails had originated was more than likely a BIG no-no.
I know in this day of the internet that information is pretty readily available. If he did do something "Questionable" to obtain the info then that will be on him.what he did to find where those e-mails had originated was more than likely a BIG no-no.
That is the Lords Highest compliment to an individual. None of us here are ready for Gods Kingdom, hence we are still here, your Daughter was. She was so special that God needed Her in Heaven and that should make you a very proud man.For how the Lord makes things work out, I heavily depend on that to keep my own sanity in the loss of my little girl. I tell myself that it has it's purpose, and that I need to stay on track for her as well. We made the choice to do organ donation, which saved one child's life, as well as improved other's lives. I of course miss my little girl, but I hold on to the faith that it was for a bigger reason.